The ideal muslims wife on the basis of this view of marriage and of women, the muslim is not attracted by the emptyheaded attitude displayed by some girls nowadays. Introduction marriage has been ordained by allah as the correct and legal way to produce children and replenish the earth. The muslim is the embodiment of the teachings of the quran and the sunnah sayings, actions and the approvals of the prophet muhammad. The meaning of marriage m arriage is a unique relationship different from all others. Fast and break your fasts, pray, and be intimate with your wife. Marriage and divorce in islam ahmad bello dogarawa, ahmadu bello university, zaria page 1 of 28 1. The wife who has not converted to islam gets nothing, the wife who has converted to islam gets very little.
Concluding, the ideal muslim husband has a strong and likeable personality, a noble attitude, tolerance and forgiveness for minor mistakes, strong adherence to the laws of allah and determination to apply them to his family, generosity without being extravagant, and a clear understanding of an ideal muslim home. The muslim community is based on sincerity, purity of human feelings and fulfillment of rights and needs to every member. Olaika yujzawna alghurfata bimasabaroo wayulaqqawna feeha tahiyyatan wasalama those will be rewarded with the highest place because of their patience, therein they shall be met with greetings and. A few rules for a happy marriage the muslim marriage guide. The ideal muslim is a man of the highest moral character. Attributes of the ideal muslim husband islam question. Quit approaching your betterhalf of unnecessary and pointless expenses. The paper was subsequently published as a booklet, and has been wellreceived especially by women, many of. The muslim, as islam meant him to be, is a unique and remarkable person in his attitude, conduct and relationships with others at all levels. O ab aldard, you have a duty to your body, and to your lord, and to your guest, and to your wife. Shall i tell you the most precious thing a man can have. Together you can strengthen each others faith and live a. Muhammad ali alhashimi gives a detailed picture of what this society would look like, drawing on his extensive research of islamic history.
Aug 29, 2007 the last time i was invited to speak about the ideal muslim wife, i made a promise that my next assignment would be to prepare a lecture on the ideal muslim husband. Its followers, called muslims, spread islam through southwest and central asia, parts of africa, and europe. He teaches from what he learns and deals with those whom he comes in contact with based on islamic. A practicing muslim man loves to have a practicing muslim wife. The ideal muslimah celebrating muslimah sisterhood. Muhammad ali alhashimi gives us a detailed picture of what this society would look like. The last time i was invited to speak about the ideal muslim wife, i made a promise that my next assignment would be to prepare a lecture on the ideal muslim husband. The true islamic personality of the muslim as defined in the quran and sunnah muhammad ali alhashimi on. Sisters need to understand that us men are simple creatures by design. Concluding, the ideal muslim husband has a strong and likeable personality, a noble attitude, tolerance and forgiveness for minor mistakes, strong adherence to the laws of allah and determination to apply them to his family, generosity without being extravagant, and a. Marriage is like a plant, when you sow the seed you need to give it attention.
Drawing on his extensive research of islamic history and contrasting the ideal with the sorry state of affairs in human societies today, he explores the religious, political, economic, social and other facets of this. Islam, huda tv, sheikh assim alhakeem, straight path, online classes. Dec 08, 2010 10 beautiful aspects of an ideal muslimah. All the foregoing indicate that the woman who is married to an ideal muslim husband is protected but not suppressed, and is therefore likely to be very happy and contented.
The ideal muslim wife book download at the end of this page. The muslim family is the strongest component of a muslim society when its members are productive and constructive, helping and encouraging one another to be good and righteous, and competing with one another in good works. Though this book outlines the ideal muslimah personality as it should be according to the quran and sunnah husbands, sons and daughters will also draw very much benefit from it. The ideal personality of a muslim the religion of islam. Choosing the right partner sincerity and trust understanding your husband authority, consultation and obedience the home good counsel and mutual understanding money. Marriage needs intention and attention, a lot of it in clear and precise doses. What were some of the major cities of the muslim world.
If you want to be a successful muslim husband, talk with your spouse to share your thoughts and build trust. This authentic islamic book on history offers practical ideas and hope to readers who long to see a better world. The true believer does not oppress or mistreat his wife. My purpose of creating this page, is to enlighten more family over the world on important and what it take to be a good partner. To be a successful muslim wife, show your husband love, respect, and affection, and ask that they treat you in the same way. Try not to urge your betterhalf to expend on your yearnings that beat his financial means. An essential characteristic of marriage is the biological fact that a man and a woman can join together as male and female in a union that is orientated to the generation of new life. Muhammad ali alhashimi, is a guidance for the muslimahs striving to right themselves. The true islamic personality of the muslim as defined in the quran and sunnah. Just be affectionate and attractive, and also show us the love and affection that we want and if the husband is good the wife will get it in return ten fold insha allah. The story of umar ra and hormuzan the ideal muslim man one of the most famous sassanian generals who fought against the muslims was the parthian aristocrat, hormuzan. When a husband and wife look at each other with love, allah looks at both of them with mercy. Leave the past for allah, dont dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
All the foregoing indicate that the women who is married to an ideal muslim husband is protected but not suppressed, and is therefore likely to be happy and contented. All the foregoing indicate that the women who is married to an ideal muslim husband is protected but. Muhammad saw whos traits are not really in the quran, shoaib as, yusuf as, luqman as, maryam as, sarah as, and really anyone else good and mentioned in the quran. The ideal muslim character is distinct and balanced and it embodies the teachings of the quran and the hadith. This website is for people of various faiths who seek to understand islam and muslims. Regarding the ideal muslim wife, the prophet saw said. January 12, 2018 best dua during pregnancy with translation quran verses. The ideal muslim wife marriage in islam in islam, marriage is a blessed contract between a man and a woman, in which each becomes permitted to the other, and they begin the long journey of life in a spirit of love, cooperation, harmony and tolerance, where each feels at ease with the other, and finds tranquillity, contentment and comfort in. The many roles which a woman may play throughout her life daughter, wife, mother, friend are explored in detail. The ideal muslim mother and father free pdf ebook download. The wife should not allow anyone into the house whom the husband does not like and if the husband tells his wife that a certain type of men and women must not enter the house, it would be. Jan 31, 2011 islam, huda tv, sheikh assim alhakeem, straight path, online classes. What pleases one man in a wife may be irritating to another and vice versa. In the name of allah, the most gracious, the most merciful.
Rather, he is attracted by a sound muslim personality, and he takes his time in choosing a partner for life, looking for a partner who has the right islamic characteristics. The prophet was the best living example of what an ideal muslim husband is supposed to be. This was in an age when people preferred sons and looked down on having daughters. The ideal muslim husband in the eyes of islam when a man marries, he has fulfilled half of the religion, so let him fear allah regarding the remaining half prophet muhammad. Pdf the author, a wellknown british lady writer tries to make reader aware of the islamic standard for an ideal wife and to encourage the wife to reach that standard as much as she wishes her husband to reach it as an ideal muslim husband.
The author has even examined both eastern and western thoughts on certain issues and proved that the islamic ideal is superior in all cases. The ideal muslimah the true islamic personality of the muslim. Olaika yujzawna alghurfata bimasabaroo wayulaqqawna feeha tahiyyatan wasalama those will be rewarded with the highest place because of their patience, therein they shall be met with greetings and the word of peace and respect. With this simple act, the prophet showed us how to express love and affection for our children an essential quality for an ideal muslim husband. According to the prophet, when a man smiles to his wife, the angels record it for him as a good deed. A true muslimah is the one who is alert, knowledgeable, true to herself as well as to others. Being an ideal muslim husband, however, goes even farther than the marriage, dr.
Share responsibility for your daily life, and enjoy one anothers company. Nov 20, 2015 the ideal muslim family is one founded on allahs guidance marriage is a lifelong affair which should be informed by ones goal in life and guidance from allah. The author, a wellknown british lady writer tries to make the reader aware of the islamic standard for an ideal husband and to encourage the husband to reach that standard as much as he wishes his wife to reach it as an ideal muslim wife. A lifestyle blog for muslim men with content geared towards cultivating holistic muslim men in the mold of the sahabah. The ideal muslim wife askislampedia online islamic. The righteous woman is the pillar, cornerstone and foundation of the muslim family.
So, an ideal muslim wife in islam is the one who maintains a reasonable budget and keep limited expenditure. The family is the basic unit of an islamic nation or society. Many men seem to feel that women, and their wives in particular, should be ideal muslims, while they themselves and their fellow men behave as they like without. Even on busy days, try to find time for conversation, and take the time to listen to what they say. In his relation with his rabb lord, himself, family, parents, relatives, friends, and the community at large, he has a most excellent example in the prophet of islam pbuh. Marriage is a legal matrimonial contract between two people in islam. Within the community he calls the people to islam with good preaching and the best character.
A successful muslim husband is loving, attentive, and respectful of his spouse. Regarding men, the prophet peace be upon him said to his ascetic companion ab aldard. The ideal muslim husband therefore does not impose restrictions on his wife greater than those imposed by allah, or by the prophet on his own family. The ideal muslim husband islam the true religion of. He treats them well by being friendly with them, humble, gentle of speech and avoiding offence. The ideal muslim husband therefore does not impose restrictions on his wife greater then those imposed by allah swt, or by the prophet saws on his own family. According to the quran a muslim wife does not inherit all her husbands wealth. During the battle of qadisiyyah, he was placed in command of the right wing of the persian army and fought vigorously until he realized that defeat was inevitable. The muslim woman is the only woman who has the potential to achieve this in a world where modern women are exhausted and tired of materialistic philosophies and the wave of ignorance jahiliyyah that has overwhelmed those societies that have gone astray from the guidance of allah. Masha allah husband n wife relationship is beautiful learn how to maintain this relationship. The ideal muslim family is one founded on allahs guidance marriage is a lifelong affair which should be informed by ones goal in life and guidance from allah. Lastly in this context, it must be pointed out that the ideal muslim wife does not imply a stereotype, every human being is different and therefore every pair of human beings who form a marriage must be different in the precise way they relate to each other. The ideal muslim character is distinct and balanced.
Dont act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, allah is the provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family. It is very rare to find this attitude among those who are not sincere muslims. I felt that the subject had already been given a lot of attention, so requested permission to present instead a paper on the ideal muslim husband, who seldom got any attention at all. By muhammad ali alhashemi the ideal muslim is now in its second revised edition in english, it has been very well received by our english and arabic readers. The muslim woman and her sons and daughters in law chapter 7.
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